Wednesday, April 5, 2017

Denim Day in Winnemucca: Celebrating Peace Over Violence!

Make a Statement with Your Fashion Statement- Wear Denim in Support of Survivors!
Help Dispel the Myths Surrounding Sexual Violence!

Denim Day in USA will be held this year on April 26, 2017. This campaign gives people the chance to make a social statement with their fashion statement while supporting survivors of sexual assault and spreading awareness about sexual violence. AVA will be continuing their support as registered participants for their 10th year by providing free ribbons to the community.

It all began in Italy, 1990: An 18-year old girl is picked up by her married 45-year old driving instructor for her very first lesson. He takes her to an isolated road, pulls her out of the car, wrestles her out of one leg of her jeans and forcefully rapes her. Threatened with death if she tells anyone, he makes her drive the car home. Later that night she tells her parents, and they help and support her to press charges. The perpetrator gets arrested and is prosecuted. He is convicted of rape and sentenced to jail.

He appeals the sentence. The case makes it’s all the way to the Italian Supreme Court. Within a matter of days the case against the driving instructor is overturned, dismissed, and the perpetrator released. In a statement by the Chief Judge, he argued, “because the victim wore very, very tight jeans, she had to help him remove them, and by removing the jeans it was no longer rape but consensual sex.”

Enraged by the verdict, within a matter of hours the women in the Italian Parliament launched into immediate action and protested by wearing jeans to work. This call to action motivated and emboldened the California Senate and Assembly to do the same, which in turn spread to Patricia Giggans, Executive Director of Peace Over Violence, and Denim Day in LA was born. The first Denim Day in LA was in April 1999, and has continued every year since.

Organized annually by Peace Over Violence, Denim Day in LA and Denim Day USA recall an Italian court case that sparked international outrage when judges did not convict a rapist because the victim wore jeans. The judges ruled that because the victim was wearing tight jeans, she must have helped her attacker remove them, thus implying consent.

Since then, Denim Day in LA and Denim Day USA has grown to become a national movement held annually during April, which is Sexual Assault Awareness Month.
“RAPE IS A GLOBAL EPIDEMIC,” “WHEN DATING BECOMES DANGEROUS” and “NO EXCUSE” are three of the sexual assault excuses highlighted in the ads, which are designed to inspire a critical dialogue about violence prevention. Materials are available for purchase and to find or create an event in your area, check out their site at: Http://

Across America, every two and a half minutes, someone is sexually assaulted. One in six American women have been the victim of attempted rape or completed rape. 82.8% of intimate partner rapes are NOT reported to law enforcement. This statistic also applies to Winnemucca. Then why aren’t many reported to law enforcement? There are several reasons and the biggest one being that the victim often knows the offender. There are worries of retaliation, fear the victim “led him on”, humiliation, and embarrassment. In a small town like ours, the word gets out quickly. Would you, readers, want everyone knowing about the worst, most invasive and very personal moment of your life? 

Another reason is sexual assault exams are not performed locally in Winnemucca. A victim would have to travel to Reno for an exam. After a traumatic and very painful experience, many victims do not want to sit in a vehicle for that long to go through yet, another painful experience. Additionally, when a victim does choose to have a sexual assault kit done, they cannot urinate, defecate, eat, drink, chew gum, smoke, wash any part of their body, brush their teeth, or change clothing until after the kit is completed. Keep in mind, they must wait until the time of their appointment in Reno (sexual assault exams are no longer considered emergency, as they are often made by appointment now), complete the exam (which can take up to three hours), then drive back to Winnemucca to shower and rest. The reason for this is sexual assault kits are done to assist in investigation and prosecution of the offender. The victim is the crime scene. As a practice in empathy, can you, readers, understand why some victims choose not to go through this process?

The AVA is working to expel the myths surrounding sexual violence and help survivors understand that rape is never their fault. No circumstances, whether the couple is in a relationship, how the victim was dressed, whether alcohol or other drugs were ingested: nothing excuses sexual violence.

AVA provides various programs, resources and referrals for survivors and secondary survivors of sexual violence, relationship abuse, child abuse and neglect, and bullying. Anyone wanting further information is encouraged to contact AVA.

AVA will be holding their annual Denim Day celebration by making free denim ribbons available to the public. Denim ribbons are made available for those who may not be able to wear denim at work or for those who would rather show their support by wearing a ribbon. People may call, email, or contact us via our website to request ribbons and they will be delivered at no cost. Donations are happily accepted and appreciated!

For more information about Peace Over Violence and Denim Day USA, please visit,  or, or email

Sunday, April 2, 2017

Raising Awareness on Child Abuse and Neglect

As part of Advocates for Victims of Abuse, the Family Advocacy Program volunteers to assist with cases in the Child Welfare System. As part of this program, we work to raise awareness and educate the public on child abuse and neglect, the cycle of violence, and how others can be a part of the solution.
Over the past 10 years, promising, community-based child protection initiatives have been implemented that broadened the base of responsibility for supporting families and protecting children. Initially, model programs evolved from targeting intervention activities in high-risk neighborhoods and rebuilding a sense of community toward empowering individual families by teaching and mentoring, building on strengths, and respecting cultural diversity. More recent child welfare reforms have focused on a more flexible and differential response for investigating reports of child abuse and neglect, including the diversion of low and moderate-risk families to community-based services. Nevada was one of the first States to support the flexible response to community-based services.

Because child abuse and neglect are complex and multidimensional, CPS alone cannot effectively intervene in the lives of maltreated children and their families. A coordinated effort that involves a broad range of community agencies and professionals is essential for effective child protection. (

The legal definition of "child abuse" in Nevada is willfully causing or permitting a child under eighteen to undergo unjustifiable physical pain or mental suffering. Specifically, child abuse comprises physical harm, mental harm, neglect, sexual abuse, or endangerment.

Neglect is the failure of a parent, guardian, or other caregiver to provide for a child’s basic needs. Neglect may be:
• Physical (e.g., failure to provide necessary food or shelter, or lack of appropriate supervision)
• Medical (e.g., failure to provide necessary medical or mental health treatment)
• Educational (e.g., failure to educate a child or attend to special education needs)
• Emotional (e.g., inattention to a child’s emotional needs, failure to provide psychological care, or permitting the child to use alcohol or other drugs)
Educational Neglect: A child who is between the ages of 7 and 17 and is not enrolled in school or due to the faults or habits of the child’s parents or caretaker is habitually and without justification absent
from school. NOTE: Before a situation is classified as educational neglect, the school district must document its effort to resolve the problem.
Environmental Neglect: The child’s person, clothing or living conditions are persistently filthy or unsanitary to the point that the child’s life or physical health is endangered. This may include infestations of rodents, spiders, insects, snakes etc., human or animal feces, rotten or spoiled food or rotten or spoiled garbage that the child can reach.
Failure to Protect: The circumstances of the parent responsible or caregiver's supervision are such that a reasonable person would be expected to foresee that the child would be placed at plausible risk of harm from the actions or inactions of another adult. The parent or responsible caregiver is responsible for maltreatment inflicted by substitute caregivers or others, or for child endangerment, if the parent knew or should have known the child was at plausible risk of physical harm of being harmed by another person.

Failure to Thrive/Malnourishment:
 Failure to Thrive: A serious medical condition most often seen in children under one year of age. The child’s weight, height and motor development fall significantly short of average growth rates of normal children (i.e. below the fifth percentile) In some cases, there is an organic cause such as a serious medical problem, a genetic error of metabolism or brain damage. Other cases are caused by severely inadequate nutrition usually resulting from a disturbed parent-child relationship manifested in severe physical and emotional neglect.
 Malnourishment: Lack of necessary or proper food substances in the body caused by inadequate food, lack of food or insufficient amounts of vitamins or minerals.

Physical abuse

Physical abuse comprises acts of battery such as hitting, burning, or throwing objects at a child. Subjecting an infant to "shaken baby syndrome" is also considered child abuse. However, disciplinary punishments such as spanking, a smack, or sending a child to his/her room without dinner are legal as long as they are not excessive.

Emotional abuse

Emotional abuse in Nevada is defined as behavior that harms a child's emotional, psychological, or intellectual capacity to the point where it impairs his/her normal range of performance.
Other forms of emotional abuse include constantly telling a child that he/she is worthless or not permitting him to attend school and learn. Since emotional abuse is difficult to measure and identify, it is harder to prove than physical abuse.

Sexual abuse includes activities by a parent or caregiver such as fondling a child’s
genitals, penetration, incest, rape, sodomy, indecent exposure, and exploitation
through prostitution or the production of pornographic materials.
Sexual abuse is defined by CAPTA as “the employment, use, persuasion, inducement,
enticement, or coercion of any child to engage in, or assist any other person to
engage in, any sexually explicit conduct or simulation of such conduct for the
purpose of producing a visual depiction of such conduct; or the rape, and in cases
of caretaker or inter-familial relationships, statutory rape, molestation, prostitution,
or other form of sexual exploitation of children, or incest with children.”

Substance abuse is an element of the definition of child abuse or neglect in many
States. Circumstances that are considered abuse or neglect in some States include the
• Prenatal exposure of a child to harm due to the mother’s use of an illegal drug or
other substance
• Manufacture of methamphetamine in the presence of a child
• Selling, distributing, or giving illegal drugs or alcohol to a child
• Use of a controlled substance by a caregiver that impairs the caregiver’s ability to adequately care for the child

The Child:
• Shows sudden changes in behavior or school performance
• Has not received help for physical or medical problems brought to the parents’ attention
• Has learning problems (or difficulty concentrating) that cannot be attributed to specific physical or psychological causes
• Is always watchful, as though preparing for something bad to happen
• Lacks adult supervision
• Is overly compliant, passive, or withdrawn
• Comes to school or other activities early, stays late, and does not want to go home
• Is reluctant to be around a particular person
• Discloses maltreatment

The Parent:
• Denies the existence of—or blames the child for—the child’s problems in school or at home
• Asks teachers or other caregivers to use harsh physical discipline if the child misbehaves
• Sees the child as entirely bad, worthless, or burdensome
• Demands a level of physical or academic performance the child cannot achieve
• Looks primarily to the child for care, attention, and satisfaction of the parent’s emotional needs
• Shows little concern for the child

Signs of Neglect
Consider the possibility of neglect when the child:
• Is frequently absent from school
• Begs or steals food or money
• Lacks needed medical or dental care, immunizations, or glasses
• Is consistently dirty and has severe body odor
• Lacks sufficient clothing for the weather
• Abuses alcohol or other drugs
• States that there is no one at home to provide care

Consider the possibility of neglect when the parent or other adult caregiver:
• Appears to be indifferent to the child
• Seems apathetic or depressed
• Behaves irrationally or in a bizarre manner
• Is abusing alcohol or other drugs

Signs of Sexual Abuse
Consider the possibility of sexual abuse when the child:
• Has difficulty walking or sitting
• Suddenly refuses to change for gym or to participate in physical activities
• Reports nightmares or bedwetting
• Experiences a sudden change in appetite
• Demonstrates bizarre, sophisticated, or unusual sexual knowledge or behavior
• Becomes pregnant or contracts a venereal disease, particularly if under age 14
• Runs away
• Reports sexual abuse by a parent or another adult caregiver
• Attaches very quickly to strangers or new adults in their environment
Consider the possibility of sexual abuse when the parent or other adult caregiver:
• Is unduly protective of the child or severely limits the child’s contact with other children, especially of the opposite sex
• Is secretive and isolated
• Is jealous or controlling with family members

Signs of Emotional Maltreatment
Consider the possibility of emotional maltreatment when the child:
• Shows extremes in behavior, such as overly compliant or demanding behavior,
extreme passivity or aggression
• Is either inappropriately adult (parenting other children, for example) or inappropriately infantile (frequently rocking or head-banging, for example)
• Is delayed in physical or emotional development
• Has attempted suicide
• Reports a lack of attachment to the parent

Consider the possibility of emotional maltreatment when the parent or other adult caregiver:
• Constantly blames, belittles, or berates the child
• Is unconcerned about the child and refuses to consider offers of help for the child’s problems
• Overtly rejects the child
*Information provided by Child Welfare Information Gateway
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